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The Stages of Twin Flame Relationships (Jenna Forrest)

1.Recognition and Temporary Spiritual Awakening
2.Testing
3.Crisis
4.Runner Dynamic
5.Surrender
6.Radiance
7.Harmonizing

The key to getting to the final Harmonizing stage with the least amount of suffering is to bypass one’s own Testing, Crisis, and Runner stages. This can be done by staying surrendered to God throughout.

Stage 1: Recognition and Temporary Spiritual Awakening

Characteristics of Stage 1:

Both Twins recognize one another at the soul level and feel as if they have met before. Synchronous events surround the union. The heart chakras open and both souls quickly merge into a third unified energy. Both Twins experience an acceleration of spiritual understanding.

The purpose of the Recognition and Temporary Spiritual Awakening Stage:
To activate the memory of each soul’s life mission and to help awaken each Twin to higher levels of consciousness.

Stage 2: Testing

Characteristics of Stage 2:

The initial temporary spiritual awakening (illumination) fades. The ego (“little self”) begins to re-emerge. One or both Twins may attempt to fit the relationship into the “old model” of Love, couplehood and relationship as it relates to their ego desires and learned belief system. Inner conflict arises. Twins ruminate on what they were taught to believe their beloved “should be” and how relationships are supposed to serve them.

Both Twins feel simultaneously inspired and toppled by the power of the union.
Doubts creep in making one or both Twins begin to view their beloved critically or suspiciously.

The purpose of the Testing stage:
To cause outdated mental concepts about relationships to rise to the surface to be cleared.

Stage 3: Crisis

Characteristics of Stage 3:

The crisis of the Twin is realizing they must reject their egoic beliefs about Love relationships or reject their beloved. Having to shed “little self” or identity-based beliefs and desires to embrace a higher expression of Love can lead to stubbornness and anxiety. Fear can take hold, triggering many dysfunctional emotional patterns. In staying present with the patterns, they can be witnessed and released.

Despite fears, both Twins naturally come together in cycles for bonding, confession, forgiveness and Lovemaking. These rituals cement higher levels of consciousness into the energy fields of both Twins.

The purpose of the Crisis stage:
To provide opportunities for the healing and maturing of the mental and emotional bodies.

Stage 4: The Runner Dynamic

Characteristics of Stage 4:

The human ego naturally fears annihilation in the face of the Unified Consciousness encoded inside the Twin Flame Union. The pain body rises up and old ego survival mechanisms or “bottom of the barrel” emotional and mental patterns like defiance, resistance, manipulation, anger, punishing and judgment arise.

One or both Twins become emotionally and mentally flooded with deep pain from what feels like soul-level rejection and abandonment. The unbearable soul-level pain leads one or both Twins to withdraw physically and block communication in fear and futility. One or both Twins may unsuccessfully try to re-create the original unified harmony.

The purpose of the Runner Dynamic:
To propel both individuals towards God for healing and maturation of the spiritual body.

NOTE: The temptation to engage in ego battle or withdrawal is very seductive and difficult for many to resist, which is why many Twins never reach Surrender, Radiance or Harmony.

Remember, there is no room for judgment in Twin Soul pairings. Each soul learns from much walking its own path and choosing through its own will. Your non-attached loving thoughts will be felt by your beloved in the subconscious, keeping them strong.

Stage 5: Surrender

Characteristics of Stage 5:

The direction and outcome of the relationship is surrendered to God in full faith and trust that the Union is under Divine Protection. It is accepted that what is best and destined for the final physical harmonizing will transpire in its own time. (Both Twins must reach Illumination in order to harmonize in the physical)

The “Runner” Twin is allowed the space and freedom to choose to evolve at their own pace in their own way. At this stage, the frequency of compassion returns and maintains itself. The Surrendered Twin holds a heart space for their beloved while fully exploring life on the way to becoming an Illuminated human. This may be a time of channeling Unconditional Love into art, music, writing, teaching, active service or some other creative outlet.

Purpose of the Surrender stage:
To help each soul release the ego, develop regular communication with God and demonstrate their full trust in God to do what is best and when.

Stage 6: Self Realization, Illumination, Radiance

Characteristics of Stage 6:

The ego or “little self” dies and the God-force energy takes over the body. This leads to a complete spiritual awakening, arriving at one’s fully awakened divinity. This is the stage of radiating Divine Love rather than seeking romantic Love.

At this stage, the surrendered Twin’s emotional, mental and spiritual bodies arrive at full maturity. New creativity and healing abilities arise, which are put in service to assist others.

Purpose of the Radiance stage:
To establish an outward flow of Divine Love through one’s body and works, which vibrates at a level that uplifts humanity.

Stage 7: Harmonizing

Characteristics of Stage 7:
By this stage both Twins have awakened. They come together in the physical to assimilate their newly evolved energies, flowing into the new dynamic of their Unified Potential. Both Twins integrate fully into the third energy of Unconditional Love in a way that influences others towards their own heart opening.

Purpose of the Harmonizing stage:
To fulfill the intended mission of the Twin Flame Union.
Twin Flame relationships come into your life to help mold you to embody the vibration of Unconditional Love.

- Article based on the YouTube Video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3aIV5okbDZQ The Stages of Twin Flame Relationships (Jenna Forrest)

Jenna Forrest Twin Flame Stages Class: http://profoundhealingforsensitives.com/twin-flame-stages-class/

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Why Twin Flames Argue

The Arguments and Fights between twin flames start in the beginning of the third phase, After they’ve been together for a while.

You’ll notice that none of you can actually ever ‘win’ an argument… you just keep throwing words at each other.
That’s because your twin flame is your other self.
Imagine arguing with yourself standing in front of a mirror.
Your behaviour is perfectly reflected back to you. The Image won’t stop until you do.

The arguments between twin flames, in this phase, don’t really have any meaning. You’ll argue at almost anything (Nothing of which, by the way, will matter once this phase is over).
These arguments actually have a very deep reason…

This actually has the main purpose of clearing all the ‘Karma’ and negativity that we’ve accumulated over the hundreds and thousands of incarnation.
The mind, however, doesn’t really understand this divine purpose.
(And that’s why we don’t like this when it happens)

Your Twin flame, like a mirror, reflects all that you hold inside you.
This includes things which you might not even know are inside you.

What we consciously know about ourselves is normally only what we’ve been in this present incarnation as a human being.

The present incarnation is only one of our many incarnations which we do not consciously remember. Most of us have had thousands of human incarnations since we first came to this planet.
Now, we carry from many of these incarnations, some ‘residue’, in the form of negative emotions and feelings or negative belief patterns.
These hold us back from rising up to higher energy levels and fully enjoy ‘being’.

This process of accumulating this negativity basically began from the pain of separation from our twin flames from the First Split.
And since then we’ve been collecting layers and layers of this in our soul memory.

The conscious mind only knows what’s happening in the present incarnation. The soul memory is generally not accessible to the conscious mind. We have, in a way, a new mind for each incarnation but the soul memory remains the same, always.

Our twin flame, being another part of our soul, reaches the very depths of our being.
The accumulated negativity that has been sitting there for thousands of years gets shaken up so that it can come to the surface and be released or transmuted into Love.
This is necessary in the last incarnation of twin flames as these layers must be released and transmuted in order for the soul to move to another level of existence.

Your twin flame pulls out all that is deep inside you to the surface for resolution.
This is a truly divine process through which twin flames cleanse each other and clear out anything that is not love.

To the conscious mind, which doesn’t understand the deep meaning of this, these arguments and fights seem confusing and troublesome.

You might at this point start blaming your twin flame for making you feel terrible all the time…
In reality it is not your twin flame or the arguments which make you feel this way… It is the layers of residue which you are releasing.
Your twin flame is only bringing them out on the surface.

We are not used to this and consciously don’t realize what is happening. This is something that only a twin flame really does with this great intensity .
Other people and karmic relationships do help us release some of these layers but a twin flame really stirs them all up.

This causes confusion in the mind.
You might think your twin flame is making you feel all this because you don’t know that it is actually carried by you.
The twin flame energy is like a shower of Love. It washes away all that is not love from your being. (but to be washed away, it has to first become visible and come to the surface)
Your mind might doubt this truly sacred Love in this period of time because you think love (or someone who loves you) can never make you feel this way.
Understand, that this is a Twin flame’s love. The deepest that there is… not only on Earth but in the entire universe.
This is your other self who cleanses you from deep within where no one else can ever reach in the way that a twin flame can.

You soul knows this. Your mind doesn’t understand it, especially while it’s happening, and gets very upset and confused.
This is the reason that people say a twin flame relationship is, along with being the most beautiful one, the hardest of all.

Yes, It can be hard… as you are releasing layers of thousands of years of residue from within you…
But know that this a part of the Sacred twin flame relationship which ultimately only benefits both of you

Source: http://theeternalbliss.wordpress.com/2011/10/02/why-twinflames-argue/

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Twin Flame Runner

The Runner is what one of the two twin flames become after the arguments and fights in the beginning of ‘The Dance’ phase of the relationship.
The reason and purpose of these arguments is actually very deep. They happen because deep layers of residue from previous lives is being released and transmuted. This takes us get back to being nothing but LOVE…
[This is explained further in 'Why Twin flames Argue']

The conscious mind, however, does not understand what is happening deep inside at the soul level. This is what makes the Runner run.

The Runner, who is usually the man, is unable to understand consciously what is happening. This happens because he is not aware of the spiritual reality… so he doesn’t know what’s happening at the soul level… and his mind gets confused because this is unlike anything that has ever happened to him.

The release of the deep layers of negative emotions and ‘residue’ gives him a feeling of uneasiness.
He might not be able to explain this but he just feels ‘irritated’.

He feels that this irritation is caused by the twin flame, when actually the residue which is being released (because it just can’t stay when the twin flame love, which is a much higher energy, comes) is the reason for the irritation.

The runner also feels like he is losing control of himself because he cannot make any sense out of what is happening to him.
He tries to figure it out but just can’t. And he gets overwhelmed by the emotions.
All this combined makes him want to escape all this and he runs away from the relationship itself.

He starts to think its the other twin flame who is the reason for all this and tries to run away from her in order to escape the ‘uneasiness’ which he probably can’t even explain to himself at this point.

All that he wants is to get away from the ‘bad feeling’.
This makes him end the relationship very abruptly which is extremely painful for the other partner.

The runner, while all this is happening, is simply very confused.
He loves his twin flame, but gets overwhelmed by all the confusion and think it is because of her.
His mind doesn’t know what is going on.
He hasn’t been in something like this ever before, and doesn’t know what to do.
So he runs.

The runner’s behaviour is something he himself can’t really explain. It is totally unexpected by the other twin flame who then becomes ‘The Chaser’.
If you ask a runner what exactly he is trying to do, he probably won’t be able to tell you.
Why? because he himself doesn’t know.
He just knows that he wants to escape the relationship.
He’ll probably give you some silly ‘logic’ if you really ask for it… but in reality it’s just that he is confused.

His heart tells him to stay, because he does feel the love, but he thinks it’s better to go with the mind.
Being a man (which most runners are), he is conditioned to suppress his feelings and go with ‘logic’… and he can see no logic in staying in something that’s causing him so much trouble.

Ultimately, however, the Runner does realize the sacred nature of the relationship (after he’s done the running, which can go on for years)… and he then returns.
And that is when the reunion happens…
And that’s where their eternal ‘Happily ever after’ begins…

Source: http://theeternalbliss.wordpress.com/2011/10/02/the-runner/

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